Sunday, November 8, 2009

No Cash for a Clunker




In the fall of 1996, a new member was added to our little family of four. Our brand new Pymouth Voyager minivan was the answer to a stressed out mother's prayers. So, as we drove our newest family member home for the first time, my husband and I rejoiced. You see, our two children would each have their very own bench seat. No more fussing about someone sitting to close to the other person. Wonderful! In addition, as opposed to our other minivan which only had one back door, the new minivan had a back sliding door on BOTH sides. No more arguing and fighting over who was going to get out first! Brittany was assigned the door on the left side, since she was a lefty. Mathew was assigned the door on the right side. Ahhhh, how nice and pleasant travelling was once again. However, this peace was short-lived. Within a month of purchasing our new vehicle, we discovered that yet another addition to the family was on the way! Though joyous over the news of another little Denny being born into the clan, I knew that this would upset the balance of peace that had finally been achieved within the minivan. Oh, what to do?

Our Plymouth Voyager has been with us through thick and thin. In fact, I was involved in a head on collision when 6 months pregnant with Michael. I can never forget the image of the hood of the van completely flying off, up and over my head. I learned later that this was a designed safety feature. And miraculousy, the air bag did not deploy. Yes, I said that is was a miracle the driver's airbag did not deploy. I was told had it deployed, then I most likely would have lost the baby. God certainly protected little Brittany, little unborn Michael, and I within the confines of our lovely minivan. I guess that is why instead of totalling it, which many people suggested should be done, we decided to have it repaired.

Our Plymouth Voyager not only protected us, but was part of many special memories of our young family. It was the vehicle that transported our third child home after he was born. We also took our trusted minivan on so many road trips - vacations, holiday trips, & family visits. Oh the memories of lost french fries and spilled coke! Our trusted minivan has also hauled many a basketball team, soccer team, and cross country team.

One of our family's favorite memories occurred in the minivan. It was the Christmas of 1996. We had Christmas Eve dinner with Granny and Granddaddy. After dinner, we loaded up the minivan to travel back to our home to settle down for Santa's visit. Our oldest son, Mathew, decided that he was bored all by himself on his bench seat in the back and began to aggravate his sister. His reign of torture on Brittany began as soon as we began backing out of Granny & Granddaddy's driveway. Scott had threatened Mathew several times before we even got out of their neighborhood. By the time we were on Highway 90, Mathew was on thin ice, in fact, his ice was thawed and his goose was about to be cooked! He aggravated Brittany one time too many. Scott pulled over, got out of the van, entered the back of the van, and spanked Mathew. I felt like I was in the car scene from The Christmas Story. There was wailing and knashing of teeth. Then Scott calmly got back out and climbed back into the driver's seat. Then - we - saw -IT! A GIANT, NEON, SIGN flashing - "HAPPY BIRTHDAY JESUS!" We were parked right in front of Pace Assembly's Christmas Display! Scott had spanked Mathew underneath the warm glow of this sign of good will! Though still sniffling from his spanking, Mathew joined the rest of us as we laughed over the irony of the situation.

Yes, our minivan gave us many wonderful memories. It also has transported us from harms way during hurricane evacutations and it has weathered the worst of storms and survived with nothing more than some scratches. I watched as hurricane Dennis lifted up the minivan off the ground repetitively with it's strong winds. Yet our faithful minivan was ready to transport us home from the shelter when it was over.

But after 12+ faithful years of service, our tired Plymouth Voyager just couldn't go another mile. It tried it's best one day to get Scott home one last time. It's engine completely stopped about halfway up our street, just around the bend. Though it's engine had quit, our trusted minivan had enough heart to get Scott and Michael home...it coasted all the way down the street into our driveway.

We thought about repairing our trusted minivan, but realized that it's reliability has ended. We tried to trade it in for Cash for Clunkers, but it was rejected. We tried to sell it, cheap. But no one wanted it. We tried to give it away to relatives who knew someone who might fix it cheap, but they couldn't transport it back to their home 200 miles away. We considered donating it to charity to help someone in need, but the repair work is more than the vehicle is worth. So it has sat in our driveway, it's final resting place, since last summer.

So, this weekend, we have determined it's fate. We have decided to sell it for salvage...a whopping $60.

No cash for this beloved clunker!

In His Love, Cathy

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Clinging

Here am I, Lord,
Clinging to You once again.

The raging seas of this world
bashing against me.

The torrential rains of life
rising higher and higher.

But for You, I'd be swept away.

Here am I, Lord,
Clinging to You once again.

The hopes of dreams of my youth gone forever.

I strayed from your path in my younger days,
I searched for life's meaning elsewhere.

It almost lead me to ruin. But You
rescued me!

Here am I, Lord
Clinging to You once again.

I don't know what to do.
Life's unexpected turns have brought both
blessings and pain.

Others rely so much on me, yet I am
confused as well.

What am I to do? I don't know the answer!

I look for your counsel, yes,
You will show me the way!

Here am I, Lord,
Clinging to You once again.

My children's laughter is fading.
They've grown up so fast.

Have I done all I could?
Was I a good mother to them?

I worry about their futures and the choices they
must make.

I pray they will listen to us , their parents,
and not make our same mistakes!

May they have godly wisdom and
let you lead the way!

Here am I, Lord,
Clinging to You once again.

Our parents rely on us more,
our fathers' health fading fast.

Our mothers need our support now
more than ever before.

Give us the strength, Lord, and the wisdom we need!

Help us to take good care of those
who have taken such loving care of us.

Here am I, Lord,
Clinging to You once again.

As the storm around me worsens,
I am no longer afraid.

For I see You walking across the raging waters,
arms outstretched as they were on that day,
the day you stretched them out wide for all of humanity.

I grasp Your hand for dear life as You reach out to me!
Oh the feeling of Your nailed scarred hand in mine!
My heart can hardly contain the joy and peace I feel inside!

So, here am I, Lord,
Clinging to You once again.

In His Love, Cathy

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

His Word is ...Life!

How do you feel about reading the Bible? Is it something you do out of duty or habit? Is is something you do for 'good luck' or to find favor with God? Why do you read your Bible? Or do you?

I'm often surprised at the various reasons Believers read the Holy Bible. Some do so out of Christian duty and nothing more. Others do so thinking they get brownie points with God for doing so. Others read the Bible inconsistently and sporadically. I'm also often surprised at how Believers feel about reading it. On more than one occassion, I've heard Believers express how boring they find reading the Bible to be. To them, the content is dry and irrelevant to their lives. Others see it as a book that simply gives good advice on how to live. And others view the Bible as just another antiquated book of religious ideas, legends, or fairytales.

The HOLY Bible is God's written Word to mankind. It is not a human book written through ordinary means. It is in NO WAY boring nor is it irrelevant!

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.
2 Timothy 3:16,17

The Bible is God-breathed meaning inspired by God. God's Holy Spirit revealed His message to certain Believers throughout the ages who wrote down this message for all mankind. God spoke to these writers and they wrote what God wanted written. Though each writer wrote in the context of their time, culture, and in their own writing style, God was ultimately the author. God was in control of the written message. Therefore, the Holy Bible is completely TRUSTWORTHY and full of TRUTH!

Now before we move on from this idea of God-breathed, writing it off as nothing but fantasy, let me share with you the awesome power that is unleashed when God 'breathes.'

  • When GOD 'BREATHED,' the Heavens & the earth were created: In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth....And the Spirit of God was hovering over the surface of the waters. Then God said,..." (Read Genesis 1:1-19 for the complete description.)
  • When GOD 'BREATHED,' life was created: Then God said, “Let the waters swarm with fish and other life. Let the skies be filled with birds of every kind.” Genesis 1:20 AND Then God said, “Let the earth produce every sort of animal, each producing offspring of the same kind—livestock, small animals that scurry along the ground, and wild animals.” And that is what happened." Genesis 1:24
  • When GOD BREATHED, man was created from DUST! And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being. Genesis 2:7
  • When GOD BREATHES during the tribulation, the TWO WITNESSES will be brought back to LIFE: But after three and a half days, God breathed life into them, and they stood up! Terror struck all who were staring at them. Revelations 11:11
God's 'breath' is potent. And if the Holy Bible is GOD BREATHED shouldn't we place a high value on reading it? I mean, God's breathed life into Adam to create the first man and He continues to breath life into man through the HOLY BIBLE!!! That very same breath that gave life to man to begin with is still breathing life through Scripture. If this is the case, then how could we even begin to consider the Bible as BOR-RING? We are suffocating ourselves when we don't deeply inhale the breath of life that God provides! For it is the HOLY BIBLE that testifies to God's glory AND to our RISEN LORD, Jesus Christ!

We should have a deep desire for the Word of God. That desire should drive us to breathe deeply as we inhale the Truths found within it's pages. Reading for reading's sake, out of duty or habit, is simply taking shorter breaths. Shorter breaths don't help us when we are drowning in the sea of a world filled with evil and despair. No, when we open the pages of the Holy Bible, we need to have hearts that are ready to thoroughly soak in it's truths. As we prepare to read, we can pray for God to open our eyes to see and open our hearts to accept what lies in His sweet and precious words to us. Even the dryest passages come to life with meaning if we'd only ask God to give us fresh insight.

When we read the Holy Word of God, let us read with great expectation. Let us read with a heart ready to apply it's truths. Let us read it to change. Let us read it and then OBEY what God is telling us through it.

Reading the Bible isn't boring. If it is, then you might need to check your perspective and maybe even your relationship with God. The Holy Bible is HIS WORDS to a lost and dying world. It is HIS ENCOURAGEMENT for His people. It is HIS Love Story to us...a story of a righteous, patient, loving, and wonderful God and what He does for the love and salvation of mankind. Spend time pouring over it's pages. Spend time reading His Love Letter to you! Simply ask and He will give you a desire for His Word. His Word is LIFE!

In His Love, Cathy

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

It's Just Okay

From a post on my facebook wall...

Cathryn got a message that on this day, God wants her to know...
... that it's OK.


Just rest for a moment. It's OK. Yes, things are crazy, yes, the world is going nuts. Yet, deep underneath the stormy waves, there, in the core of your being, there is pure silence, pure love. And ... it's ... just ... OK.

And this is the message I want to share with you...that it's okay. You can let go. God has it under control.

He handled the creation of the universe without you, I know He can handle whatever it is you are struggling with. Let Him.

Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you. 1 Peter 5:7

In His Love, Cathy

Monday, November 2, 2009

Taming the Tongue: No Gossip Zone

Everyone loves a juicy story! Like flies drawn uncontrollably to light only to be zapped in the end, we are drawn into the decieving attractiveness of gossip. Everyone loves a good tale. But gossip is more than just a story. Gossip is the spreading of lies and rumors about someone. Gossip may be grounded in truth but with the flare of opinions and suppositions thrown in. Gossip destroys the reputations of others and tears people down. Gossip is very wrong and it is evil.

My sister owns a 5 star Salon and Spa. Because her business depends on providing clients with top notch service, she established it as a no gossip zone. Her number 1 rule to employees - NO GOSSIPING - period! Most of her employees follow this rule and it has lead to a positive work atmosphere and relationships. However, she did fire a young lady a little over a year ago because she broke this number 1 rule - repeatedly and in front of clients. My sister patiently worked with this young lady to help her overcome her nasty gossiping habit but to no avail. The young woman just couldn't resist the temptation and ended up losing her job due to her inability to tame her tongue.

We all know someone who is a gossip. This person always seems to have the scoop on everyone and their business. They may couch their gossip in feigned concern or sugar coat it to sound completely innocent, but it is gossip nonetheless. We must guard ourselves around such people and guard our ears and hearts from accepting gossip. Here's what Scripture has to say about those who gossip:

  • Gossips can't be trusted: A gossip goes around telling secrets,but those who are trustworthy can keep a confidence. Proverbs 11:13
  • Gossips are troublemakers and destroy relationships: A troublemaker plants seeds of strife;gossip separates the best of friends. Proverbs 16:38
  • A sinful heart desires gossip: Wrongdoers eagerly listen to gossip;liars pay close attention to slander. Proverbs 17:4
  • Gossip is wicked: Their lives became full of every kind of wickedness, sin, greed, hate, envy, murder, quarreling, deception, malicious behavior, and gossip. Romans 1:29

The negative effects of gossiping impacts not only the person who is the topic of the gossip but also the gossiper.

  • Gossip spreads slander like wildfire - once out of one's mouth, it can't go back in: They visit me as if they were my friends,but all the while they gather gossip,and when they leave, they spread it everywhere. Psalm 41:6
  • People avoid gossips: A gossip goes around telling secrets,so don’t hang around with chatterers. Proverbs 20:19
  • Gossiping betrays and ruins reputations - even that of the gossiper: When arguing with your neighbor, don’t betray another person’s secret. Others may accuse you of gossip, and you will never regain your good reputation. Proverbs 29:9-19
  • Gossiping causes arguments & quarrels: Fire goes out without wood,and quarrels disappear when gossip stops. Proverbs 26:20

Though we may not consider ourselves a gossiper, it is just as easy for us to fall into gossip's trap. We may love a juicy morsel of gossip every now and then and think nothing of it! However, we must guard our ears, heart, and mouth against both receiving and bearing gossip. The Bible is very clear that we are to encourage one another and build up each other. (2 Corinthians 13:11) Gossip tears down and destroys. It has no place among us.

So here's a better way as outlined perfectly in His Word:

Those who lead blameless lives and do what is right, speaking the truth from sincere hearts. Those who refuse to gossip or harm their neighbors or speak evil of their friends. Those who despise flagrant sinners, and honor the faithful followers of the Lord,and keep their promises even when it hurts. Those who lend money without charging interest,and who cannot be bribed to lie about the innocent.

Such people will stand firm forever.

Psalm 15:2-9

In His Love, Cathy

Sunday, November 1, 2009

TAMING THE TONGUE: Why Be Truthful

Here's a post I wrote back in March but never posted. I thought it would be an easy post today since I had a migraine and am not up to much writing or anything else for that matter. 'Someone' didn't want me to post this today because the content was literally wiped out right as I was ready to post. Nice try, but that just made me mad. Tried to reconstruct the essence of the original post but not as good as the original - especially since I'm on meds this morning:-) Hope this message is a blessing. Now back to bed to sleep off this headache!

Ever had someone tell you a lie? How did it make you feel? Have you had others ever tell lies about you? Have you ever told a lie? As imperfect beings we have all been lied to, lied about, and even told lies.

Lies destroy trust. Lies damage relationships. Lies hurt. When Believers lie, it damages our testimony for Christ. Satan is the father of all lies. So when we lie, who are we reflecting? It certainly isn't Christ!

What about telling little white lies, you know, the ones that are told as to not hurt the feelings of others or to avoid confict? A lie is a lie, no matter how big or how small. Lying can take many forms and be of varing degrees. Lying is anything that deceives another - whether spoken or unspoken. Lying can include partial truth, half-truths, withholding information, cheating, a broken promise, dodging questions, keeping silent on an issue that you should speak out on, or keeping a damaging secret.

There is nothing good about lying. There are numerous verses that describes those who lie:

  • Lies reveal a wicked heart: The wicked conceive evil;they are pregnant with troubleand give birth to lies. Psalm 7:14
  • Lies reveal a heart that isn't right with God: You love evil more than goodand lies more than truth. Psalm 52:2
  • Lies destroy others: All day long you plot destruction.Your tongue cuts like a sharp razor;you’re an expert at telling lies. Psalm 52:2

Now let's what Scriptures says about God's perspective on lying.

  • God hates a liar: There are six things the Lord hates— no, seven things he detests: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that kill the innocent, a heart that plots evil, feet that race to do wrong, a false witness who pours out lies, a person who sows discord in a family. My son, obey your father’s commands, and don’t neglect your mother’s instruction. Proverbs 6:16-20

Did you notice out of all the sins listed, how lying is listed TWICE in Proverbs 6:16-20? Not only that, the first time it's mentioned in this passage it is named right beside MURDER! God is also very clear on the consequences of lying:

  • God will destroy liars: You will destroy those who tell lies.The Lord detests murderers and deceivers. Psalm 5:6

Notice again lying is mentioned right beside murder! Maybe this is an indication of just how much God absolutely HATES lies!

So, why be truthful? Truth is good medicine. Truth is life giving and sustaining. Truth builds trust in relationships. Truth gives credibility in our testimony for Jesus Christ. Although being truthful can be tough at times, the alternative is much worse. Let me share with you some of the benefits of being truthful according to Scripture:

  • Being truthful yields a right relationship with God and with others: Who may worship in your sanctuary, Lord? Who may enter your presence on your holy hill? 2 Those who lead blameless lives and do what is right, speaking the truth from sincere hearts. 3 Those who refuse to gossip or harm their neighbors or speak evil of their friends. Psalm 15:1-3
  • God is close to those who love Truth: The Lord is close to all who call on him,yes, to all who call on him in truth. Psalm 145:18
  • Truth stands the test of time, lies don't: Truthful words stand the test of time,but lies are soon exposed. Proverbs 12:19
  • The Lord delights in those who are truthful: The Lord detests lying lips,but he delights in those who tell the truth. Proverbs 22:22

Though we are not always perfect at being truthful, we can ask God to forgive us and help us to walk in Truth. His mercy and forgiveness know no bounds. Make it your goal to be truthful. Resist the urge to tell even the littlest white lie, even if it is being told to avoid hurting someone's feelings. On the flip side, sometimes bluntness is to be avoided as well. There is a fine line between being blunt, speaking your opinion , and speaking TRUTH in LOVE. Ask God to deal with you if you are struggling with being truthful. He can help.

Grace and peace, friends!