So Christ has truly set us free. Now make sure that you stay free, and don’t get tied up again in slavery to the law.
Galatians 5:1-2
My family and I just made a major life change after much prayer and deliberation. The FREEDOM we have experienced since making this life change has been a long awaited answer to prayer. We did not realize just how 'oppressed' we had been for years until now.
But the decision was not easy. We had struggled for at least two years prior to finally making this choice. Though liberating, there was still much pain in making the change. I naively thought that long time friends would be supportive. Some were. However, others who did not understand, or refused to understand, immediately put a wall between us and them. We were never given the opportunity to speak with them. I was deeply hurt.
I learned a lot from this experience. I learned that it takes real courage to make positive changes - for even positive changes can bring negative reactions from others. I learned there may be sacrifices that must be made. And I learned that even when following God's will, there will be naysayers and critics, but you cannot allow them to derail the choice that you know must be made.
Sadly, I also learned that no matter how respectfully or quietly you try to make a change in order to avoid making an issue, there will be those who will try to create drama where there is none in order to manipulate the situation. And when your character is attacked it is sometimes better to say nothing. Defending your stance to those who do not truly love you and are not genuinely concerned about your well being is a waste of time and effort - like casting pearls to the swine!
Please do not misinterpret what I am saying here. There are times to take a stand. Our family did when we made the change. Those who love you will choose to understand, support you, and continue to love you still.
Though we are to love others, even our enemies, we cannot allow criticisms, opinions, nor objections color the positive choices we know must be made. God knows our hearts and the truth about our character and situation. Others who know us know the truth as well. So pray for those who persecute you. Ask God to help you love your enemies. Stay faithful in your walk in Christ and the plans He has for you, even when it means change that challenges you, your family, and your relationships.
If you feel oppressed or trapped in your current situation, seek God's direction. Ask Him to show you what changes you need to make to break free from this bondage. He will give you the strength and courage you need. It may be tough but totally worth it in the end!
Our family is enjoying the freedom we have in Christ from this change. It has brought quite a bit of spiritual healing for us. Though we are still working our way through this change, we know that our first steps have been in the right direction. Yet we are spiritually wounded, therefore, we are taking it slow, seeking God's guidance, so that we do not get entangled in the same way again.
Grace and peace, friends!
In His Love, Cathy
PS - Just writing this has been very therapeutic!