Michael swam with a family of rays and a family of dolphins. He loves the water and being on his skim board!
In His Love, Cathy
Sunday, May 31, 2009
A Day at the Beach
A much needed mini family getaway. It was GORGEOUS! (BTW - While the rest of us are chillin' Brittany is busy texting. I wonder who?)
Michael swam with a family of rays and a family of dolphins. He loves the water and being on his skim board!
Michael swam with a family of rays and a family of dolphins. He loves the water and being on his skim board!
Rock Solid: What Your Child Learned in Church Today, May 31
Bible Lesson: The Beatitudes (5:10-12)
Memory Verse: "Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes." Ephesians 6:11
Main Point: I will be faithful!
What we learned: Today, the children continued exploring the Beatitudes. In this last lesson, the children discovered that they can be faithful and strong in what they believe, even when being persecuted and mocked by those who do not believe. This strength and hope to stand against evil is one of God's greatest gifts. Children talked about the importance of being a good friend to others and what a good friend should do in standing up for a friend who is being bullied or made fun of. Then they saw that in order to be a good friend for Jesus, we need to do the same for Him. How appropriate this lesson is in light of recent local events and the enemy's attack on student prayer in schools! Glory to God!
TRAIN UP A CHILD HOMEWORK
1. Memory Verse: Help your child memorize Ephesians 6:11. Practice this verse several times with your child during the week. This will not only help them remember the verse, it will also help to reinforce what they learned during class.
2. Suggested Parent/Child Activity: Pick one nice day this week and go to the park with your child to collect leaves. See how many different leaves you can find, and press them between pages of a big book. Later, you can even mount them in a photo album. Talk about how there are many things in this world that will not last. Things like toys, cars, houses, even some friends will all leave someday. They are like leaves that fall from a tree when the growing season is over. But Jesus will never leave, he will always be right there with us. Whenever your child shows his or her leaf collection to someone, they can also share this truth about Jesus.
3. Daily Prayer: Dear God, your love is everlasting, and nothing can take that away from us. Help us to stand firm to what we believe, even in the midst of insults and persecution. They will not last forever, but your love will, and your promised gift of Heaven. Amen.
4. Bible Readings: This week reread Matthew 5:1-12. Remind your children of what they have learned the past several weeks about the Beatitudes - or "BE ATTITUDES." Help them to understand how important it is to show God our love through our obedience and remaining faithful to Him no matter what.
In His Love, Cathy
Memory Verse: "Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes." Ephesians 6:11
Main Point: I will be faithful!
What we learned: Today, the children continued exploring the Beatitudes. In this last lesson, the children discovered that they can be faithful and strong in what they believe, even when being persecuted and mocked by those who do not believe. This strength and hope to stand against evil is one of God's greatest gifts. Children talked about the importance of being a good friend to others and what a good friend should do in standing up for a friend who is being bullied or made fun of. Then they saw that in order to be a good friend for Jesus, we need to do the same for Him. How appropriate this lesson is in light of recent local events and the enemy's attack on student prayer in schools! Glory to God!
TRAIN UP A CHILD HOMEWORK
1. Memory Verse: Help your child memorize Ephesians 6:11. Practice this verse several times with your child during the week. This will not only help them remember the verse, it will also help to reinforce what they learned during class.
2. Suggested Parent/Child Activity: Pick one nice day this week and go to the park with your child to collect leaves. See how many different leaves you can find, and press them between pages of a big book. Later, you can even mount them in a photo album. Talk about how there are many things in this world that will not last. Things like toys, cars, houses, even some friends will all leave someday. They are like leaves that fall from a tree when the growing season is over. But Jesus will never leave, he will always be right there with us. Whenever your child shows his or her leaf collection to someone, they can also share this truth about Jesus.
3. Daily Prayer: Dear God, your love is everlasting, and nothing can take that away from us. Help us to stand firm to what we believe, even in the midst of insults and persecution. They will not last forever, but your love will, and your promised gift of Heaven. Amen.
4. Bible Readings: This week reread Matthew 5:1-12. Remind your children of what they have learned the past several weeks about the Beatitudes - or "BE ATTITUDES." Help them to understand how important it is to show God our love through our obedience and remaining faithful to Him no matter what.
In His Love, Cathy
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Pray for Our Schools - PLEASE!
Please cover our schools in prayers. It's needed more so now than ever before. It's been a rough week this week for some of Pace High students. We are not just facing sanctions as a result of the ACLU issue, but kids are also dealing with the passing of a student who committed suicide. There have fights and threats of fights this week due to the high emotions resulting from these two situations. Kids are hurting, they are in mourning, and others are pushing the envelope because of the issues.
In His Love, Cathy
In His Love, Cathy
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
PCC Children's Ministry Events - Week of May 25- 31
VBS 2009: Boomerang Express
Where it all comes back to Jesus!
June 15-19 from 6 to 8:30 p.m.
Registration for VBS going on NOW!
TShirts $11 preorder by THIS SUNDAY MAY 31.
VBS MUSIC CD $2 DVD 24.99
VBS WORSHIP TEAM PRACTICE and DECORATING
Sundays from 2 to 4 p.m.
VBS VOLUNTEER MEETING RIGHT AFTER SECOND SERVICE THIS SUNDAY, MAY 31.
EXTRA HELP NEEDED to lead groups of children from station to station. Email me to volunteer at pcckidzministry@aol.com.
In His Love, Cathy
How Great is Our God!
The splendor of the King, clothed in majesty
Let all the earth rejoice
All the earth rejoice
He wraps himself in Light,
and darkness tries to hide
And trembles at His voice
Trembles at His voice
How great is our God,
sing with me
How great is our God,
and all will see
How great, how great is our God
Age to age He stands
And time is in His hands
Beginning and the end
Beginning and the end
The Godhead Three in One
Father Spirit Son
The Lion and the Lamb
The Lion and the Lamb
How great is our God,
sing with me
How great is our God,
and all will see How great,
how great is our God
Name above all names
Worthy of all praise
My heart will sing
How great is our God
Name above all names
Worthy of all praise
My heart will sing
How great is our God
How great is our God,
sing with me
How great is our God,
and all will see How great,
how great is our God
© 2004 Six Step Records
Thank you God for answered prayers over our friends and their families. Thank you God for you bend down to hear our prayers and answer them with amazing deeds. Thank you God for your AMAZING and PERFECT LOVE! I will praise you all my days!
"My health may fail, and my spirit may grow weak,
but God remains the strength of my heart.
He is mine forever."
Psalm 73:26
In His Love, Cathy
Monday, May 25, 2009
Unforgotten
Memorial Day has mixed meanings within our family. On Memorial Day, we usually celebrate my maternal grandfather's birthday, which is May 25th. It is also the day we honor my paternal grandfather for his service in WWII and my maternal uncle for his service in the Navy. However, this Memorial Day is very different for us than those in the past. It is our first without Granddaddy. Our first without visiting him and throwing him a big birthday party. It's also a first for us in quite another way. With the discovery of Scott's biological family, we have a another member of the family to honor on this day. Scott's biological father served in the Korean War, earning the Silver Star for Gallantry, along with other medals for his courage and bravery. We are thrilled to be able to honor him today for the first time.
Scott's biological fat
her fought in one of the worst battles of the Korean War. Known as "Heartbreak Ridge," this battle was the backdrop of a movie of the same title by Clint Eastwood. Not familiar with this battle? You can read about the battle at http://www.2id.org/heartbreakridge.htm
As with many Korean Veteran's, Scott's father didn't speak of the war. The war was often called "The Forgotten War," though many of the veteran's who fought in it could never forget it. After the war, Scott's father felt that Korean War Veterans had been forgotten. He had lost so many friends in Korea, especially on Heartbreak Ridge. When the Vietnam War Memorial was dedicated, he became upset. He felt that Korean War veterans and those who never made it home had been completely forgotten. Years later, his daughter Denise, wrote a beautiful poem for his birthday to honor his service to our country. Today is an appropriate day to share this poem, to remember him, my grandfathers, my uncle, and all of our service men and women who so willingly served and gave their lives for their country.
So, I cry for the pain and I cry for the lost
I cry for all the heroes we forgot when they returned
I cry for the memories of the things you left unsaid
I cry for how you've managed to hide what you had to do.
Written by Denise L. Green December 8, 2002
In His Love, Cathy
Scott's biological fat
her fought in one of the worst battles of the Korean War. Known as "Heartbreak Ridge," this battle was the backdrop of a movie of the same title by Clint Eastwood. Not familiar with this battle? You can read about the battle at http://www.2id.org/heartbreakridge.htm
As with many Korean Veteran's, Scott's father didn't speak of the war. The war was often called "The Forgotten War," though many of the veteran's who fought in it could never forget it. After the war, Scott's father felt that Korean War Veterans had been forgotten. He had lost so many friends in Korea, especially on Heartbreak Ridge. When the Vietnam War Memorial was dedicated, he became upset. He felt that Korean War veterans and those who never made it home had been completely forgotten. Years later, his daughter Denise, wrote a beautiful poem for his birthday to honor his service to our country. Today is an appropriate day to share this poem, to remember him, my grandfathers, my uncle, and all of our service men and women who so willingly served and gave their lives for their country.
UNFORGOTTEN
Dedicated to all the UNFORGOTTEN
Veterans of the Korean War
I can't imagine fighting with people I don't know
Or going to a country because they said to go
I don't know what it's like to see the things you saw
Or killing complete strangers just to see another dawn
I have no understanding of the horror that you hide
But is would be an honor to share the tears you've cried
So, I cry for the pain and I cry for the lost
I cry for your heartache and I cry for the cost
I cry for all the heroes we forgot when they returned
I cry for the hatred and I cry for what we've learned
I cry for the memories of the things you left unsaid
I cry for the wounded, the survivors, and the dead
I cry for how you've managed to hide what you had to do.
I cry for my hero, DAD, because my hero is you.
Written by Denise L. Green December 8, 2002
for her father Edward L Green
So today, we are honoring OUR HEROES! Your courage and your bravery inspire us. It is our privilege to honor you. We love you and miss you so very much!
Edward L. Green (K Co 23rd Inf Rgt, Korean War) - Scott's Biological Dad
Joseph E. Rudd, Sr. (Navy Pilot, WWII) - Cathy's Grandfather
Bobby L Mathews (Navy) - Cathy's Uncle
We also honor our heroes who are still among us today, who have served or are still serving our country. We love you and are proud of your service and sacrifice!
Glenn D Denny (Commander Ret. USN, Vietnam Veteran) - Scott's Dad
Michael Faulk (Lt. Commander Ret. USN) - Cathy's Uncle
Bryan D Denny (former Capt. USAF) - Scott's brother
Paul Denny (US Army, Vietnam Veteran) - Scott's Uncle
Donald Whitley (USAF B52 Bomber Pilot, Vietnam Veteran) - Scott's Uncle
In His Love, Cathy
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Rock Solid: What Your Child Learned in Church Today, May 24
BIBLE LESSON: The Beatitudes Matthew 5:7-9
Memory Verse: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves." Philippians 2:3 NIV
Main Point: I will care about others more than myself!
Summary of Today's Lesson: Today, the children continued exploring the Beatitudes. In this second of three lessons, the children discovered that spiritual character goes beyond just being a Christian. It means we must care about others even more than ourselves.
Training Up a Child Homework:
1. MEMORY VERSE: Work with your child on this week's Memory Verse, Philippians 2:3. Practice this verse several times with your child during the week. This will not only help them remember the verse, it will also help to reinforce what they learned during class.
2. Suggested Parent/Child Activity: Having spiritual character means to care about others more than yourself. Have you child choose one of the following activities for you to do, and then you choose one for your child to do. The object is for both of you to do whatever the other picked, without grumbling or complaining. You can also come up with your own activities. 1. Sweep the garage and put everything in place 2. Weed the front yard 3. Treat the other person to an ice cream cone with your own money 4. Draw and color a portrait of the other person 5. Clean the other person's room 6. Read a book to the other person 7. Give the other person a massage 8. Other _______
3. Suggested Daily Prayer: Dear God, let us have the kind of character that considers other people better than ourselves. We are all wonderfully made in your image, to be your children. Thank you Lord for the life you gave to us. Help others see Jesus alive in each one of us by living lives that are humble, generous, honest, and obedient. Amen.
4. Bible Readings: Read Matthew 5:1-9 with your child to review the Beatitudes we've studies over the past two weeks. Talk with them about what each of these mean. Then read about Abigail in 1 Samuel 25:1-35. Talk about how Abigail was a peacemaker with your child. Ask your child what it means to be a peacemaker and what could they do as a peacemaker.
In His Love, Cathy
Memory Verse: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves." Philippians 2:3 NIV
Main Point: I will care about others more than myself!
Summary of Today's Lesson: Today, the children continued exploring the Beatitudes. In this second of three lessons, the children discovered that spiritual character goes beyond just being a Christian. It means we must care about others even more than ourselves.
Training Up a Child Homework:
1. MEMORY VERSE: Work with your child on this week's Memory Verse, Philippians 2:3. Practice this verse several times with your child during the week. This will not only help them remember the verse, it will also help to reinforce what they learned during class.
2. Suggested Parent/Child Activity: Having spiritual character means to care about others more than yourself. Have you child choose one of the following activities for you to do, and then you choose one for your child to do. The object is for both of you to do whatever the other picked, without grumbling or complaining. You can also come up with your own activities. 1. Sweep the garage and put everything in place 2. Weed the front yard 3. Treat the other person to an ice cream cone with your own money 4. Draw and color a portrait of the other person 5. Clean the other person's room 6. Read a book to the other person 7. Give the other person a massage 8. Other _______
3. Suggested Daily Prayer: Dear God, let us have the kind of character that considers other people better than ourselves. We are all wonderfully made in your image, to be your children. Thank you Lord for the life you gave to us. Help others see Jesus alive in each one of us by living lives that are humble, generous, honest, and obedient. Amen.
4. Bible Readings: Read Matthew 5:1-9 with your child to review the Beatitudes we've studies over the past two weeks. Talk with them about what each of these mean. Then read about Abigail in 1 Samuel 25:1-35. Talk about how Abigail was a peacemaker with your child. Ask your child what it means to be a peacemaker and what could they do as a peacemaker.
In His Love, Cathy
Saturday, May 23, 2009
Urgent Prayer Request
Please pray for my friend Michele H. I got word that Michele had a stroke today and doctors found a tumor in her brain. She is in surgery tonight. I don't know which hospital. Michele just had a baby a couple of weeks ago and also has a 5 year old daughter. Please pray for her, her husband Robert and their girls. Donna K. is at the hospital with Robert. If anyone has any further information, please let us know. Thanks and God Bless, friends!
In His Love, Cathy
In His Love, Cathy
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
My Favorite Place to Be
in prayer,
in the Word,
In His Presence.
My favorite place to be...
in the afternoon after work,
with my family,
talking with my daughter while
eating pizza,
hanging with my hubby
as we read a book,
laughing with my sons
as we swing and talk.
My favorite place to be...
in the whole wide world.
In His Love, Cathy
(Picture taken at the very time of day I spend time with Him. He never ceases to amaze me!)
Psalm 23:1-3
1 The Lord is my shepherd;
I have all that I need.
2 He lets me rest in green meadows;
he leads me beside peaceful streams.
3 He renews my strength.
He guides me along right paths,
bringing honor to his name.
Psalm 23:1-3
I have all that I need.
2 He lets me rest in green meadows;
he leads me beside peaceful streams.
3 He renews my strength.
He guides me along right paths,
bringing honor to his name.
Psalm 23:1-3
HE is all that we need. HE leads us along the right path, the path to everlasting life and eternal peace. HE is the renewer of our strength. To HIM be all honor, glory, and praise!
In His Love, Cathy
In His Love, Cathy
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
PCC Children's Ministry - Week of May 18 to 24
Wednesday Nights - No midweek children's activities for the remainder of the school year.
Sunday Mornings - Rock Solid Children's Church: Church Made for Kids
PK (3years old and potty trained) through 4th grade.
VOLUNTEER TEACHERS and HELPERS needed for Sunday Mornings. Minsitry growth = need for more workers. Email me at pcckidzministry@aol.com for an exciting opportunity to serve Christ and children.
VBS 2009: Boomerang Express - Where it all comes back to Jesus!
When: June 15-19
Time: 6:00 to 8:30 p.m.
Who: Kids PK through 5th (and older)
VBS VOLUNTEERS NEEDED
contact me to find out more!
VBS WORSHIP TEAM PRACTICE & DECORATING
SUNDAYS from 2 to 4 p.m.
(We will be meeting this Sunday, May 24)
In His Love, Cathy
Monday, May 18, 2009
Making Time to Rest
So as I get up today to get ready for work, I'm struck with another killer migraine. As I struggle with the decision of going to work, pangs of guilt strike me for missing a day of teaching eager math students (and some not so eager). However, as my throbbing headache takes over my whole body and nausea sets in, the simplest of tasks become challenges. I walk into the kitchen with a cold, wet rag covering my forehead, my eyes peeking out of the smallest opening underneath for fear of the pain from the light. Just like that, I've been transformed into a 'vampire'. The dark, cool night is my friend. The tiniest ray of morning light causing searing pain to my eyes. Even as I type this, I cannot look at the computer screen. I'm forced to wear sunglasses and type without looking at the screen. A feat I learned in typing many years ago. (This skill also comes in handy when students are taking tests. Because I can type without looking at the screen, I can watch my students as they are testing. Oh the many test taker I've lured into this trap! Inevitably while I'm typing, at least one potential cheater will hear the clicking of the computer keys, assume that I'm preoccupied with what I am doing. It is at the very moment they decide to look around at their neighbor's tests that it happens. They look up to find me gazing directly at them, my eyes fiercely locked on them. Jolted and freaked my by all knowing gaze, they hastily return their eyes to their own papers. My typing never missing a beat. I had one student tell me how this freaked him out. That's good! Another potential cheater thwarted!)
My apologies for going off on a 'tangent.' (Get it? Tangent? I'm a math teacher - going off on a tangent...ha ha. Well, it's funny to my fellow geeks who share my weird sense of humor - or maybe not.) I think my migraine meds are kicking in so I'm getting a little loopy! Okay, a lot loopy! Oh well, so I'm home today. Tired, struggling with this migraine. Though I can not afford to have this migraine nor miss a day of work, here I am. At home. Then I read this mornings Proverbs 31 Ministries Devotion GREEN PASTURES by Micca Monda Campbell.
http://proverbs31devotions.blogspot.com/2009/05/greener-pastures.html
"He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside the still waters, he restores my soul." Psalm 23:2-3 (NIV)
I'll admit it. I tend to be a workaholic. I've shared this fact about myself in other blogs on this topic. God reminded me this morning that I need to take time to rest. Each and every one of us need to take time to rest, to take care of ourselves, to relax and let our hair down. My migraine was no coincidence. It was a reminder of just how much I've neglected myself over the past week. It was God forcing me to take a major time out.
You see, if we are not committed to taking time out to recharge and refresh ourselves, then we can not carry out the mission He has given to us. We are no good to anyone. Even Jesus took time alone, away from the crowds, to pray and rest. We are not greater than our Lord and Savior, so if even He took time out for restoration and rest, then who do we think we are not to? Listen, not a single one of us is the energizer bunny. We can't keep going and going and going. If we do, there will surely be a major crash and somebody will pay - ourselves, our loved ones, and those who depend on us. Carve out some time for yourself everyday. Don't feel guilty about it either. Your time to relax and destress is important - after all, you are only human. It not only is for your good, but for the good of all those around you.
Do something today that you enjoy, something that helps you to relax - a walk, a bike ride, a 'spa' bubble bath, reading, or swinging outside (my favorite since my family gave me a three seater patio swing for Mother's Day). Take care of yourself, friends!
In His Love, Cathy
My apologies for going off on a 'tangent.' (Get it? Tangent? I'm a math teacher - going off on a tangent...ha ha. Well, it's funny to my fellow geeks who share my weird sense of humor - or maybe not.) I think my migraine meds are kicking in so I'm getting a little loopy! Okay, a lot loopy! Oh well, so I'm home today. Tired, struggling with this migraine. Though I can not afford to have this migraine nor miss a day of work, here I am. At home. Then I read this mornings Proverbs 31 Ministries Devotion GREEN PASTURES by Micca Monda Campbell.
http://proverbs31devotions.blogspot.com/2009/05/greener-pastures.html
"He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside the still waters, he restores my soul." Psalm 23:2-3 (NIV)
I'll admit it. I tend to be a workaholic. I've shared this fact about myself in other blogs on this topic. God reminded me this morning that I need to take time to rest. Each and every one of us need to take time to rest, to take care of ourselves, to relax and let our hair down. My migraine was no coincidence. It was a reminder of just how much I've neglected myself over the past week. It was God forcing me to take a major time out.
You see, if we are not committed to taking time out to recharge and refresh ourselves, then we can not carry out the mission He has given to us. We are no good to anyone. Even Jesus took time alone, away from the crowds, to pray and rest. We are not greater than our Lord and Savior, so if even He took time out for restoration and rest, then who do we think we are not to? Listen, not a single one of us is the energizer bunny. We can't keep going and going and going. If we do, there will surely be a major crash and somebody will pay - ourselves, our loved ones, and those who depend on us. Carve out some time for yourself everyday. Don't feel guilty about it either. Your time to relax and destress is important - after all, you are only human. It not only is for your good, but for the good of all those around you.
Do something today that you enjoy, something that helps you to relax - a walk, a bike ride, a 'spa' bubble bath, reading, or swinging outside (my favorite since my family gave me a three seater patio swing for Mother's Day). Take care of yourself, friends!
In His Love, Cathy
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Rock Solid: What Your Child Learned In Church Today, May 17
Bible Lesson: The Beautitudes (Matthew 5:1-6)
Main Point: I will 'BEE' humble.
Bible Verse: “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is near” (Matthew 4:17b NIV)
In His Love, Cathy
Main Point: I will 'BEE' humble.
Bible Verse: “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is near” (Matthew 4:17b NIV)
What we learned:
Today, the children started exploring the Beatitudes. In this first lesson, they discovered how blessed they can be when they live lives that are spiritually humble according to the words of Jesus.
Train Up a Child Homework:
1. Memory Verse: Practice the memory verse several times with your child during the week. This will not only help them remember the verse, it will also help to reinforce what they learned during class. Have your child recite it to me next week for a prize.
2. Suggested Parent/Child Activity: Make two identical lists with the names of about 5 people both you and your child know well. Separate the names with some space so you can write below each. Then, working separately, write down below each name what Godly characteristics (Spritual Character) you believe that person has, such as kind, friendly, generous, good father, etc. Then, compare your two lists to see how well you matched. Discuss why each of you chose what you did, especially for those characteristics where you did not match.
3. Suggested Daily Prayer: Dear God, help me understand the true meaning of Spiriual character. There is no one greater than you, nothing more powerful than you, and everything belongs to you. Let me live a life that is meek and humble, so that my spirit may be filled with joy that can only come from you. Amen
4. Bible Reading: Read Matthew 5:1-6 with your child. Help them to understand what it means to be poor in spirit, mourn for your sin, hunger and thirst for righteousness, and be humble.
In His Love, Cathy
Saturday, May 16, 2009
The Importance of VBS
There are those in the ministry world who don't see any value in VBS. They are of the opinion that VBS is an ineffective tool to reach children for Christ. VBS is criticized for many reasons. One criticism I have heard is that it is often used as free baby sitting by the parents. Another criticism I've heard is that it's too much fun and not enough Bible study. Yet another criticism is that it is not an effective way to spread the gospel and reach people for Christ. However, I beg to differ with these criticisms as well as any others that people have offered up against VBS.
Here's why we do VBS. (Be sure to pause my playlist before viewing video.)
I am a product of VBS. It is where the seeds of faith were implanted in my heart. It is where I first learned about Christ, His love for me, and what He did on the cross. It is where a desire for God's Word first sprung in my heart. My parents may not have faithfully attended church, but they did take us to VBS every year when we were young. I trace my spiritual roots back to VBS. For it is at VBS that I first heard that salvation was not automatic, that you have to admit you are a sinner, believe in Jesus Christ as the Son of God who died and rose again on the third day, and confess Him as your Lord and Savior. It got me to thinking about Christ and what I believed.
Another reason I believe in VBS is I've seen God do great things in the hearts of children who participate and even in families. For the past two years we've reached on average 100 to 120 children through VBS. At each of the past two VBS events, we've had at least 20 children who have asked Christ into their hearts as Lord and Savior. You see, we gear up that whole week to earn their trust, to speak to them about God's Truth and who Christ is. Then on Thursday night we present the plan of salvation in terms that they can understand. The Holy Spirit has always faithfully movee upon those nights in a great way. It's awesome to see children come forward to kneel and pray for Christ to come into their hearts. It's wonderful to see families sitting in the atrium afterwards, talking about Jesus Christ with their children. It's awesome to see the number of children baptized after each VBS. God is so faithful in helping us spread the Gospel to the children of Pace.
Please be in prayer as we are one month away from the BIGGEST CHILDREN'S OUTREACH EVENT of the year. We are already being challenged in big ways by the enemy to keep this from happening. Our resources are being challenged as we do not have enough help. Our advertising campaign for VBS is being challenged as the signs we've ordered have not come in as indicated. Even our decorations and supplies that were ordered two weeks ago have not arrived on time. Despite this, God will pull it off. God is about to do something GREAT through this event and that is why we are facing challenges. Pray for VBS and for the children's ministry to spread the GOOD NEWS to as many children as possible. Invite children in your neighborhood to come. Pick up extra VBS pre-registration forms from the information table or children's table and give them to every child you know. Pray for the volunteers who have already been working hard and deligently making preparations. Join up with us and serve Christ through this ministry. We are still in need of servants. It will be absolutely awesome to witness once again how God can use us to reach children with the message of salvation!
Let me leave you with a story of just how powerfully God can use VBS to impact a child's life. About 10 years ago, I was teaching a VBS class of 3rd and 4th graders. In that somewhat large class was a troubled young man. You see, he was from Texas, visiting his grandparents for the summer. His grandparents were quite concerned with their grandson. You see, his dad was very abusive to him. He had come to stay with his grandparents that summer while his dad was getting 'help' for his anger issues. During this particular VBS, with children sitting crossed legged on the floor around me, I taught about Christ's love for them and how they could have eternal life. The children were very attentive, but this young man was especially so. As I taught, this young man began asking questions. He asked what did he need to do to become saved. As tears welled up in my eyes, I shared with him how he could know Jesus. He asked if I'd pray with him. Sitting there on the floor, holding hands, heads bowed, we prayed. He asked Jesus to come into his heart. When his grandparents came to pick him up, I shared the good news with them. They were so happy. They were crying. I was crying. We all were crying. The following Sunday, that young man got baptized. His grandparents were just filled with joy. I was too. Then came the end of the summer. The boy had to return to Texas, back to the father that had abused him in the past. The grandparents were torn. My heart was heavy. In the midst of my worry and concern over this precious child of God, God reminded me that this little boy was not returning home alone. Christ was now with him, he would never, ever be alone again. I often wonder about that young man. Every year as I begin VBS plans I think about him. Every single thing about VBS reminds me of him. It's God's way of reminding me why we do VBS. You see, it doesn't matter if we have 1000 children or only 10 children at VBS. Ifwe can even reach just one child for Christ, with God's help, then it's worth it!
God's blazing a trail with VBS 2009! Saddle up your horses and join us!
In His Love, Cathy
Here's why we do VBS. (Be sure to pause my playlist before viewing video.)
I am a product of VBS. It is where the seeds of faith were implanted in my heart. It is where I first learned about Christ, His love for me, and what He did on the cross. It is where a desire for God's Word first sprung in my heart. My parents may not have faithfully attended church, but they did take us to VBS every year when we were young. I trace my spiritual roots back to VBS. For it is at VBS that I first heard that salvation was not automatic, that you have to admit you are a sinner, believe in Jesus Christ as the Son of God who died and rose again on the third day, and confess Him as your Lord and Savior. It got me to thinking about Christ and what I believed.
Another reason I believe in VBS is I've seen God do great things in the hearts of children who participate and even in families. For the past two years we've reached on average 100 to 120 children through VBS. At each of the past two VBS events, we've had at least 20 children who have asked Christ into their hearts as Lord and Savior. You see, we gear up that whole week to earn their trust, to speak to them about God's Truth and who Christ is. Then on Thursday night we present the plan of salvation in terms that they can understand. The Holy Spirit has always faithfully movee upon those nights in a great way. It's awesome to see children come forward to kneel and pray for Christ to come into their hearts. It's wonderful to see families sitting in the atrium afterwards, talking about Jesus Christ with their children. It's awesome to see the number of children baptized after each VBS. God is so faithful in helping us spread the Gospel to the children of Pace.
Please be in prayer as we are one month away from the BIGGEST CHILDREN'S OUTREACH EVENT of the year. We are already being challenged in big ways by the enemy to keep this from happening. Our resources are being challenged as we do not have enough help. Our advertising campaign for VBS is being challenged as the signs we've ordered have not come in as indicated. Even our decorations and supplies that were ordered two weeks ago have not arrived on time. Despite this, God will pull it off. God is about to do something GREAT through this event and that is why we are facing challenges. Pray for VBS and for the children's ministry to spread the GOOD NEWS to as many children as possible. Invite children in your neighborhood to come. Pick up extra VBS pre-registration forms from the information table or children's table and give them to every child you know. Pray for the volunteers who have already been working hard and deligently making preparations. Join up with us and serve Christ through this ministry. We are still in need of servants. It will be absolutely awesome to witness once again how God can use us to reach children with the message of salvation!
Let me leave you with a story of just how powerfully God can use VBS to impact a child's life. About 10 years ago, I was teaching a VBS class of 3rd and 4th graders. In that somewhat large class was a troubled young man. You see, he was from Texas, visiting his grandparents for the summer. His grandparents were quite concerned with their grandson. You see, his dad was very abusive to him. He had come to stay with his grandparents that summer while his dad was getting 'help' for his anger issues. During this particular VBS, with children sitting crossed legged on the floor around me, I taught about Christ's love for them and how they could have eternal life. The children were very attentive, but this young man was especially so. As I taught, this young man began asking questions. He asked what did he need to do to become saved. As tears welled up in my eyes, I shared with him how he could know Jesus. He asked if I'd pray with him. Sitting there on the floor, holding hands, heads bowed, we prayed. He asked Jesus to come into his heart. When his grandparents came to pick him up, I shared the good news with them. They were so happy. They were crying. I was crying. We all were crying. The following Sunday, that young man got baptized. His grandparents were just filled with joy. I was too. Then came the end of the summer. The boy had to return to Texas, back to the father that had abused him in the past. The grandparents were torn. My heart was heavy. In the midst of my worry and concern over this precious child of God, God reminded me that this little boy was not returning home alone. Christ was now with him, he would never, ever be alone again. I often wonder about that young man. Every year as I begin VBS plans I think about him. Every single thing about VBS reminds me of him. It's God's way of reminding me why we do VBS. You see, it doesn't matter if we have 1000 children or only 10 children at VBS. Ifwe can even reach just one child for Christ, with God's help, then it's worth it!
God's blazing a trail with VBS 2009! Saddle up your horses and join us!
In His Love, Cathy
Friday, May 15, 2009
A Wonderful Night
Tonight was a very special night for our family. We all went together to see the new Star Trek movie. As the pre-show advertisements rolled on screen, the five of us settled into our seats, munching on popcorn, sipping our sodas, and anticipating the start of the movie. Every few minutes, one of the kids would ask for the time, following up their question with another, "How much longer before the movie begins?" There we were. All together. As we munched and talked it suddenly dawned on me that this was the first time in a very long time that we had gone out together as a family. I believe the last time we went to the movies together was the premiere of the last Star Wars movie. I don't even know how long ago that was. In fact, as I thought further, tonight was the first outing anywhere as a family since Mathew had gone off to college. Even though he was home for the holidays, we didn't really go out as a family.
So there we were tonight. Together. I was also struck by the fact that these special moments are going to become rarer and rarer over time. There will come a time in which just the five of us, together, will become the exception rather than the rule. We are already experiencing this to a degree now that Mathew is in college. The idea that our little family, the fabulous five, won't always be under the same roof hurts my heart. I love my children and enjoy their company. We are a tight knit family. When even one is not home, the nest seems empty. What will I do when all three are gone?
I guess the best thing is to savor each and every moment we have together as a family. We won't allow the world to rob us of the precious opportunities we share. We must be ready to seize these special moments when they present themselves, but also make time for special moments such as these while we have the opportunity.
Tonight, as the movie started, I sat next to my family, watching their expressions, sharing in their laughter, enjoying their company. All five of us, Trekkies. Though I enjoyed the movie, I derived the most enjoyment from my family. Thank you, God, for I am blessed indeed!
Friends, enjoy your families this weekend. Live long and prosper!
In His Love, Cathy
PS - If you're wondering about that inappropriate scene in the movie, don't worry, Scott and Mathew had that covered - literally. The minute it flashed across the screen they both covered Michael's eyes with their hands. In fact, I think Michael's whole face was covered. I don't even know if the child was able to breath in that few minutes. Kudos to Dad and Mathew!
So there we were tonight. Together. I was also struck by the fact that these special moments are going to become rarer and rarer over time. There will come a time in which just the five of us, together, will become the exception rather than the rule. We are already experiencing this to a degree now that Mathew is in college. The idea that our little family, the fabulous five, won't always be under the same roof hurts my heart. I love my children and enjoy their company. We are a tight knit family. When even one is not home, the nest seems empty. What will I do when all three are gone?
I guess the best thing is to savor each and every moment we have together as a family. We won't allow the world to rob us of the precious opportunities we share. We must be ready to seize these special moments when they present themselves, but also make time for special moments such as these while we have the opportunity.
Tonight, as the movie started, I sat next to my family, watching their expressions, sharing in their laughter, enjoying their company. All five of us, Trekkies. Though I enjoyed the movie, I derived the most enjoyment from my family. Thank you, God, for I am blessed indeed!
Friends, enjoy your families this weekend. Live long and prosper!
In His Love, Cathy
PS - If you're wondering about that inappropriate scene in the movie, don't worry, Scott and Mathew had that covered - literally. The minute it flashed across the screen they both covered Michael's eyes with their hands. In fact, I think Michael's whole face was covered. I don't even know if the child was able to breath in that few minutes. Kudos to Dad and Mathew!
Star Trek The Movie - It's AWESOME! But Parents Beware
Okay all of you trekkies, if you haven't seen the new Star Trek movie then let me just say that it was great. However, before you take your kids be forewarned that there is 'language', and a highly suggestive scene with mild nudity. Other than that, it was da bomb!
In His Love, Cathy
In His Love, Cathy
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Are You Lying to Your Kids?
Pinocchio Parenting
Written by Dr. Chuck Borsellin
This article is courtesy of Living with Teenagers. (Lifeway)
“Liar, liar, parents on fire!” That’s what 15-year-old Dillon shouted to his parents right after they told him another one.
Unfortunately, he’d heard most of them before:• Your fish went to live with his friends in the ocean.• If you make that face again, your face will freeze that way.• It doesn’t matter whether you win or lose; it’s how you play the game.• God helps those who help themselves.And the one we’ve all told our kids: When I was your age, I walked to school… in the snow… without shoes…uphill…both ways.
Really?The truth is…everybody lies. Toddlers, teens, and adults. Deny it, and you’re probably lying. Small lies are called “fibs.” Big lies are called “whoppers.” Necessary lies are called “white.”
Whatever the case, we live in a culture where lying is common. The same way that fish live in a world that’s wet, we live in a world that leans toward dishonesty. According to the book The Day America Told the Truth, 91 percent of Americans admitted to lying routinely. On average, we lie about twice a day—more often than most of us brush our teeth.
Even more unfortunate is the way our culture has slipped into our homes. Despite our verbal commitments to truth as outlined in the Bible, even Christian parents can slip into a world of “almost truths.” When backed against the wall, lies and clichés just slide off our tongues like a politician before Election Day.
Why We LieIn the minds of many, lying has become as American as apple pie. We lie to protect ourselves; we lie to promote ourselves. We lie to elevate ourselves; we lie to excuse ourselves. We’ve become a nation of “Pinocchio Parents.”
Soon after we learned how to walk, we learned how to lie (Mommy, I didn’t do it!). Later we learn money lies (The check’s in the mail.), math lies (I just turned 39.), medical lies (The doctor will call you right back.), work lies (I can’t come in to work today; I’m sick.) and necessary lies (Fat? No, you look great in that outfit.).
While every lie has a consequence, the most damaging lies are the ones we tell our kids. Why? Because they erode our parental credibility and distort our children’s sense of reality.
As a psychologist, I’ve seen hundreds of kids in therapy, and I’ve come to an interesting conclusion. While unhealthy behaviors may prompt a trip to my office, you can’t ignore the unhealthy beliefs that lay behind those behaviors. If you can change the beliefs, you’ve got a good chance of changing the behaviors.
I’ll admit that our purposes in not sharing nothing but the truth with our kids may be noble, but that also doesn’t make it right. In my experience, I’ve discovered that we lie to our kids for three main reasons:• To help them make sense out of their circumstances: “That’s OK honey; he wasn’t good for you anyway.”• To bring assurance to their anxieties: “Looks don’t matter, it’s what’s inside that counts.”• To inspire them to reach beyond their limits: “If you can dream it, you can do it.”You don’t have to dig very deeply to identify a basic problem, though. These statements sound good, but none of them are true!
Living By The LieOf course, these are just a sampling of the lies we tell our kids. Let’s take a closer look at three examples and why parents need to do all they can to avoid them:
Lie #1: You can be anything you want to be. Really? It’s fashionable, but is it factual? Of course not. It’s a lie based on a belief that desires turn dreams into reality. They don’t. Desires may direct choices; training and hard work may develop the mind; and motivation may fuel your fire. Ultimately, though, the difference between average and awesome is ability.
God created each of us unique. Could Beethoven carve a statue like Michelangelo? Could Mozart draw like Picasso. Could Picasso become an accountant? The numbers just wouldn’t line up. Literally.
As parents, our job is to help our kids discover and then develop the unique gifts that God has invested in them. Kids cannot be anything they want to be, but they can ask God what plans and purposes He created them to fulfill (Jer. 29:11).After that, it’s easy. Teach them to do the most with what they’ve got.
Lie #2: It doesn’t matter whether you win or lose; its how you play the game.Then why does everybody keep score?
The NBA’s Dallas Mavericks just spent millions of dollars for an 8-sided, 360-degree, electronic scoreboard. Why? Because in the NBA, they keep score. Do the Mavericks have some of the nicest guys in the NBA on their team? Yes. Do they work as hard on ball handling and shooting? Yes. Does the team’s coach teach his players to play within the rules of the NBA? Of Course. Like it or not, the score matters.
I’m not saying that character doesn’t count. It does. If I could only pick one, I’d choose character over competence any day. But we live in a world where both are important, and parents miss the mark if they teach their kids that score doesn’t matter.
The Apostle Paul put it this way: “Do you not know that the runners in a stadium all race, but only one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may win” (1 Cor. 9:24). As a parent, teach your kids to keep one eye on their character, one eye on their competence… and one eye on the scoreboard.
Lie #3. Looks don’t matter because it’s what’s on the inside that counts.The Bible reminds us that God focuses on the heart (1 Sam. 16:7), but all the research I’ve seen lately demonstrates that His highest creations are not following His example.
Numerous studies have concluded that what’s on the outside conquers what’s on the inside. In comparison to those not so physically blessed, attractive people are perceived as more competent, confident, and sociable.
At school, teachers demonstrate a “halo effect” toward the bronzed and the beautiful. In the workplace, attractive candidates are more likely to be hired, promoted, and rewarded. My message to parents? Once again, what’s on the inside does matter, but telling kids that appearance is irrelevant is simply not true.
Help your teen discover a proper balance between looking good and obsessing over looks. Work with them to make their appearance count, but not at any cost.
The truth is, none of us are perfect when it comes to being less than honest with our kids. I’ve been a Pinocchio Parent just like you. I am walking where you walk, but I also have committed myself to telling nothing but the truth—so help me God.
Dr. Chuck Borsellino is a licensed clinical psychologist and ordained minister. He also serves as executive producer and co-host (with his wife, Jenni) of the daily television show, At Home—Live!
In His Love, Cathy
Written by Dr. Chuck Borsellin
This article is courtesy of Living with Teenagers. (Lifeway)
“Liar, liar, parents on fire!” That’s what 15-year-old Dillon shouted to his parents right after they told him another one.
Unfortunately, he’d heard most of them before:• Your fish went to live with his friends in the ocean.• If you make that face again, your face will freeze that way.• It doesn’t matter whether you win or lose; it’s how you play the game.• God helps those who help themselves.And the one we’ve all told our kids: When I was your age, I walked to school… in the snow… without shoes…uphill…both ways.
Really?The truth is…everybody lies. Toddlers, teens, and adults. Deny it, and you’re probably lying. Small lies are called “fibs.” Big lies are called “whoppers.” Necessary lies are called “white.”
Whatever the case, we live in a culture where lying is common. The same way that fish live in a world that’s wet, we live in a world that leans toward dishonesty. According to the book The Day America Told the Truth, 91 percent of Americans admitted to lying routinely. On average, we lie about twice a day—more often than most of us brush our teeth.
Even more unfortunate is the way our culture has slipped into our homes. Despite our verbal commitments to truth as outlined in the Bible, even Christian parents can slip into a world of “almost truths.” When backed against the wall, lies and clichés just slide off our tongues like a politician before Election Day.
Why We LieIn the minds of many, lying has become as American as apple pie. We lie to protect ourselves; we lie to promote ourselves. We lie to elevate ourselves; we lie to excuse ourselves. We’ve become a nation of “Pinocchio Parents.”
Soon after we learned how to walk, we learned how to lie (Mommy, I didn’t do it!). Later we learn money lies (The check’s in the mail.), math lies (I just turned 39.), medical lies (The doctor will call you right back.), work lies (I can’t come in to work today; I’m sick.) and necessary lies (Fat? No, you look great in that outfit.).
While every lie has a consequence, the most damaging lies are the ones we tell our kids. Why? Because they erode our parental credibility and distort our children’s sense of reality.
As a psychologist, I’ve seen hundreds of kids in therapy, and I’ve come to an interesting conclusion. While unhealthy behaviors may prompt a trip to my office, you can’t ignore the unhealthy beliefs that lay behind those behaviors. If you can change the beliefs, you’ve got a good chance of changing the behaviors.
I’ll admit that our purposes in not sharing nothing but the truth with our kids may be noble, but that also doesn’t make it right. In my experience, I’ve discovered that we lie to our kids for three main reasons:• To help them make sense out of their circumstances: “That’s OK honey; he wasn’t good for you anyway.”• To bring assurance to their anxieties: “Looks don’t matter, it’s what’s inside that counts.”• To inspire them to reach beyond their limits: “If you can dream it, you can do it.”You don’t have to dig very deeply to identify a basic problem, though. These statements sound good, but none of them are true!
Living By The LieOf course, these are just a sampling of the lies we tell our kids. Let’s take a closer look at three examples and why parents need to do all they can to avoid them:
Lie #1: You can be anything you want to be. Really? It’s fashionable, but is it factual? Of course not. It’s a lie based on a belief that desires turn dreams into reality. They don’t. Desires may direct choices; training and hard work may develop the mind; and motivation may fuel your fire. Ultimately, though, the difference between average and awesome is ability.
God created each of us unique. Could Beethoven carve a statue like Michelangelo? Could Mozart draw like Picasso. Could Picasso become an accountant? The numbers just wouldn’t line up. Literally.
As parents, our job is to help our kids discover and then develop the unique gifts that God has invested in them. Kids cannot be anything they want to be, but they can ask God what plans and purposes He created them to fulfill (Jer. 29:11).After that, it’s easy. Teach them to do the most with what they’ve got.
Lie #2: It doesn’t matter whether you win or lose; its how you play the game.Then why does everybody keep score?
The NBA’s Dallas Mavericks just spent millions of dollars for an 8-sided, 360-degree, electronic scoreboard. Why? Because in the NBA, they keep score. Do the Mavericks have some of the nicest guys in the NBA on their team? Yes. Do they work as hard on ball handling and shooting? Yes. Does the team’s coach teach his players to play within the rules of the NBA? Of Course. Like it or not, the score matters.
I’m not saying that character doesn’t count. It does. If I could only pick one, I’d choose character over competence any day. But we live in a world where both are important, and parents miss the mark if they teach their kids that score doesn’t matter.
The Apostle Paul put it this way: “Do you not know that the runners in a stadium all race, but only one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may win” (1 Cor. 9:24). As a parent, teach your kids to keep one eye on their character, one eye on their competence… and one eye on the scoreboard.
Lie #3. Looks don’t matter because it’s what’s on the inside that counts.The Bible reminds us that God focuses on the heart (1 Sam. 16:7), but all the research I’ve seen lately demonstrates that His highest creations are not following His example.
Numerous studies have concluded that what’s on the outside conquers what’s on the inside. In comparison to those not so physically blessed, attractive people are perceived as more competent, confident, and sociable.
At school, teachers demonstrate a “halo effect” toward the bronzed and the beautiful. In the workplace, attractive candidates are more likely to be hired, promoted, and rewarded. My message to parents? Once again, what’s on the inside does matter, but telling kids that appearance is irrelevant is simply not true.
Help your teen discover a proper balance between looking good and obsessing over looks. Work with them to make their appearance count, but not at any cost.
The truth is, none of us are perfect when it comes to being less than honest with our kids. I’ve been a Pinocchio Parent just like you. I am walking where you walk, but I also have committed myself to telling nothing but the truth—so help me God.
Dr. Chuck Borsellino is a licensed clinical psychologist and ordained minister. He also serves as executive producer and co-host (with his wife, Jenni) of the daily television show, At Home—Live!
In His Love, Cathy
Monday, May 11, 2009
A Saved Life
Warning, this is a long read...but it's story worth reading!
It was a Friday afternoon. I was overtasked as usual, committing myself to more things than I should have. Yet all of the tasks on my agenda were so very important, none could really been eliminated. It had also been a long, hard week at school. More papers to grade than there were minutes in a day. Finally, Friday had arrived and relief was only hours away. But before I could relax for the weekend, I still had to take care of quite a few things for children's ministry and, oh yes, I needed to prepare a meal for a family in our church by 6 p.m. Friday night. As I left school that Friday afternoon, I debated on the order of my remaining tasks. Should I head to church first and just pick up a ready meal for the family? Or should I get the ingredients I needed for the meal from the store, cook it at church while I finished the remaining ministry tasks for the week? I had a difficult time deciding what should be the best approach. You see, I am a very efficient person and don't like to waste my time or efforts. I mulled over what the best approach would be and decided it would be the store first to get the ingredients and cook the meal while working at the church on children's ministry tasks. So, I headed out of the school parking lot around 4 p.m. and turned right on West Spencer Field Road. By the time I got even close to the light, it was closing in on 4:30 p.m. "Ridiculous!" I thought. "I'll never make it to Publix on time!" So, I did something I never, ever do. I changed my mind! Now before you make one of those, "Well, that's just like a woman" comments, you need to know that when I set out to do something, I rarely ever change my mind, especially if it requires turning around midtraffic. But that's exactly what I did. The traffic was so backed up I knew that I'd never make it to the store and then back to the church in time to cook the meal and get it to the family. So I decided it might be best if I just worked at the church for a little while and picked up a delicious ready made meal.
So, I turned around and headed back North, toward the church. The whole traffic situation and my confusion over what I was to do that day just seemed so odd to me. When I arrived at the church, I noticed a car driving slowly in the parking lot. As I turned into the parking lot, this car began to leave. It passed by me only to slow down and stop. Then I noticed the driver was slowly backing up. Though I was a little uneasy, I did the same. I partially rolled down my window and asked if I could help the gentleman in the car. He indicated he was a friend of a member of our church and they were meeting at the church that afternoon. The gentleman proceeded to tell me that he was going through hard times and that he just came up to our church to pray and seek God. I asked him his name so that I could pray for him. He looked really broken. My heart just went out to him. I then told him that I didn't see anyone at the church at the moment, but to please come on Sunday. I shared with him about the wonderful church family of PCC. How the people of PCC are so loving, friendly, and truly like family. I told him how much I hoped he would come and how I'd love to introduce him to my husband, hoping to give him a connection to another man in our congregation. He thanked me for the invitation and we said our goodbyes. As he drove off I decided being alone at the church after such an encounter was probably not a wise decision. So I was to make a second attempt to get the meal ingredients for the family's dinner. As I was leaving, I noticed my new friend stopped at the church exit and another vehicle beside him, the two drivers talking. I thought it was Renae, so I pulled over into the church median to wait. Instead, it was the church member who was friends with the gentleman I just met. We shared a greeting, he indicating that they were going to remain and pray. I indicated I would leave to get the meal for the family. I had absolutely NO IDEA what had really transpired that afternoon. It wasn't until Sunday morning that the details of Friday's events came to light.
After first service, the member who had met the troubled gentleman at the church on Friday asked me to come meet his friend. On the way to meet him, I found out the sad yet miraculous tale of the troubled gentleman in the parking lot. You see, the gentleman had intended to commit suicide that very afternoon. He had come up to the church to pray and possibly kill himself. He told me this himself after I met him Sunday morning. He had a loaded gun and it was with him in his car on that Friday. He said that things were really bad in his life, that he had done some really bad things, and that he was just empty inside. He had pulled up by the 'pretty flowers' in front of the church to pray. He kept talking about praying by the beautiful potted flowers. He said he prayed that God would give him a sign not to kill himself. It was right after he prayed this that I pulled into the church parking lot. He took my pulling into the parking lot and speaking to him as his sign from God not to kill himself. My heart was broken for him as I heard his story. I choked up and cried. All I could think of was, "Wow, God! I thank you that this gentleman is still here today!" I hugged his neck and told him how much God LOVED HIM! I assured him that I would continue to pray for him. Before he left that day, I made sure that he knew there were people who cared about him, that God loved him, and that he met my husband - after all I promised to introduce him to my husband.
I thank God for what transpired that Friday afternoon to prevent this gentleman from taking his life. God orchestrated the events of that day to save that man's life. From the traffic, to my indecision about what to do first, to my turning around in traffic and going to the church first...God was in control. He put me in the right place, at the right time, just long enough until his friend arrived. I'm so thankful for his friend who met him at the church, who prayed with him, and was there for him at a crucial time. That's a real friend. Often, we pray asking God to use us in His Works. But in praying this, I guess I always assumed that I would see the fruits of His work through me. Now I realize that we may not always see what God does through us. We may impact others for Christ in ways we may never know in this lifetime. This is what real ministry is about. This is the meaning of loving others as Christ does. Ministry can happen in ways you may never even think. God even used the beautiful potted flowers in front of the church to minister to this hurting gentlemen as he prayed.
Like this gentleman, there are others out in this world who are hurting, who are lonely, who need Christ so desperately. They need our prayers. They need us to minister to them and share with them the authentic love of Jesus Christ. They need our friendship. We need to be watching and ready to help.
If you are one who is hurting please know that you can place your hope in Christ. He loves you so much that He suffered and died for you. Simply ask Him to come into your life as your Lord and Savior. He will heal the hurts. He will bind the wounds. He will never, ever leave you. He will comfort you. Please also know that there are people willing to help you in your time of need. Just please, don't give up hope.
"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. 5For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows. " 2 Corinthians 1:3-5
Please pray for my new friend. Please pray for others like him who are hurting and lonely.
In His Love, Cathy
It was a Friday afternoon. I was overtasked as usual, committing myself to more things than I should have. Yet all of the tasks on my agenda were so very important, none could really been eliminated. It had also been a long, hard week at school. More papers to grade than there were minutes in a day. Finally, Friday had arrived and relief was only hours away. But before I could relax for the weekend, I still had to take care of quite a few things for children's ministry and, oh yes, I needed to prepare a meal for a family in our church by 6 p.m. Friday night. As I left school that Friday afternoon, I debated on the order of my remaining tasks. Should I head to church first and just pick up a ready meal for the family? Or should I get the ingredients I needed for the meal from the store, cook it at church while I finished the remaining ministry tasks for the week? I had a difficult time deciding what should be the best approach. You see, I am a very efficient person and don't like to waste my time or efforts. I mulled over what the best approach would be and decided it would be the store first to get the ingredients and cook the meal while working at the church on children's ministry tasks. So, I headed out of the school parking lot around 4 p.m. and turned right on West Spencer Field Road. By the time I got even close to the light, it was closing in on 4:30 p.m. "Ridiculous!" I thought. "I'll never make it to Publix on time!" So, I did something I never, ever do. I changed my mind! Now before you make one of those, "Well, that's just like a woman" comments, you need to know that when I set out to do something, I rarely ever change my mind, especially if it requires turning around midtraffic. But that's exactly what I did. The traffic was so backed up I knew that I'd never make it to the store and then back to the church in time to cook the meal and get it to the family. So I decided it might be best if I just worked at the church for a little while and picked up a delicious ready made meal.
So, I turned around and headed back North, toward the church. The whole traffic situation and my confusion over what I was to do that day just seemed so odd to me. When I arrived at the church, I noticed a car driving slowly in the parking lot. As I turned into the parking lot, this car began to leave. It passed by me only to slow down and stop. Then I noticed the driver was slowly backing up. Though I was a little uneasy, I did the same. I partially rolled down my window and asked if I could help the gentleman in the car. He indicated he was a friend of a member of our church and they were meeting at the church that afternoon. The gentleman proceeded to tell me that he was going through hard times and that he just came up to our church to pray and seek God. I asked him his name so that I could pray for him. He looked really broken. My heart just went out to him. I then told him that I didn't see anyone at the church at the moment, but to please come on Sunday. I shared with him about the wonderful church family of PCC. How the people of PCC are so loving, friendly, and truly like family. I told him how much I hoped he would come and how I'd love to introduce him to my husband, hoping to give him a connection to another man in our congregation. He thanked me for the invitation and we said our goodbyes. As he drove off I decided being alone at the church after such an encounter was probably not a wise decision. So I was to make a second attempt to get the meal ingredients for the family's dinner. As I was leaving, I noticed my new friend stopped at the church exit and another vehicle beside him, the two drivers talking. I thought it was Renae, so I pulled over into the church median to wait. Instead, it was the church member who was friends with the gentleman I just met. We shared a greeting, he indicating that they were going to remain and pray. I indicated I would leave to get the meal for the family. I had absolutely NO IDEA what had really transpired that afternoon. It wasn't until Sunday morning that the details of Friday's events came to light.
After first service, the member who had met the troubled gentleman at the church on Friday asked me to come meet his friend. On the way to meet him, I found out the sad yet miraculous tale of the troubled gentleman in the parking lot. You see, the gentleman had intended to commit suicide that very afternoon. He had come up to the church to pray and possibly kill himself. He told me this himself after I met him Sunday morning. He had a loaded gun and it was with him in his car on that Friday. He said that things were really bad in his life, that he had done some really bad things, and that he was just empty inside. He had pulled up by the 'pretty flowers' in front of the church to pray. He kept talking about praying by the beautiful potted flowers. He said he prayed that God would give him a sign not to kill himself. It was right after he prayed this that I pulled into the church parking lot. He took my pulling into the parking lot and speaking to him as his sign from God not to kill himself. My heart was broken for him as I heard his story. I choked up and cried. All I could think of was, "Wow, God! I thank you that this gentleman is still here today!" I hugged his neck and told him how much God LOVED HIM! I assured him that I would continue to pray for him. Before he left that day, I made sure that he knew there were people who cared about him, that God loved him, and that he met my husband - after all I promised to introduce him to my husband.
I thank God for what transpired that Friday afternoon to prevent this gentleman from taking his life. God orchestrated the events of that day to save that man's life. From the traffic, to my indecision about what to do first, to my turning around in traffic and going to the church first...God was in control. He put me in the right place, at the right time, just long enough until his friend arrived. I'm so thankful for his friend who met him at the church, who prayed with him, and was there for him at a crucial time. That's a real friend. Often, we pray asking God to use us in His Works. But in praying this, I guess I always assumed that I would see the fruits of His work through me. Now I realize that we may not always see what God does through us. We may impact others for Christ in ways we may never know in this lifetime. This is what real ministry is about. This is the meaning of loving others as Christ does. Ministry can happen in ways you may never even think. God even used the beautiful potted flowers in front of the church to minister to this hurting gentlemen as he prayed.
Like this gentleman, there are others out in this world who are hurting, who are lonely, who need Christ so desperately. They need our prayers. They need us to minister to them and share with them the authentic love of Jesus Christ. They need our friendship. We need to be watching and ready to help.
If you are one who is hurting please know that you can place your hope in Christ. He loves you so much that He suffered and died for you. Simply ask Him to come into your life as your Lord and Savior. He will heal the hurts. He will bind the wounds. He will never, ever leave you. He will comfort you. Please also know that there are people willing to help you in your time of need. Just please, don't give up hope.
"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. 5For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows. " 2 Corinthians 1:3-5
Please pray for my new friend. Please pray for others like him who are hurting and lonely.
In His Love, Cathy
PCC Children's Ministry Events - Week of May 11 through 17
Wednesday Nights
No Children's Activities
VBS Worship Team Practices
& VBS Decorating
Sundays from 2 to 4 p.m.
Starting May 17
VBS VOLUNTEER MEETING
RESCHEDULED FOR Sunday, May 31
Immediately following 2nd service.
VBS HELP NEEDED - Group Leaders, Helpers, Registration, T-shirt orders
Decorating, data entry, plus much more. Contact me to plug in.
SUNDAY MORNING TEACHERS and HELPERS still needed.
Summer Children's Ministry is going to be AWESOME!
Get on board today!
In His Love, Cathy
Friday, May 8, 2009
VBS 2009: Boomerang Express!
VBS 2009
Boomerang Express: Where it all comes back to Jesus!
Boomerang Express: Where it all comes back to Jesus!
JUNE 15-19 6:00 – 8:30 P.M.
PK (3yrs & potty trained) through 5th Grades
REGISTER for VBS TODAY
PK (3yrs & potty trained) through 5th Grades
REGISTER for VBS TODAY
Registration Forms Available at Children's Sign In Table
On Sale Now through Sunday, May 24
VBS Music CD: $2.00
VBS DVD: $24.99
Pre-orders only. Must be paid in advance.
VBS YARD SIGNS
Available May 17. Donations toward cost of sign appreciated.
In His Love, Cathy
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
PCC Children's Ministry - This Week, May 4 - 9
WEDNESDAY NIGHT
VBS Worship Team PRACTICE from 7 to 8 p.m.
KG - 4th Grades
Mother's Day
is
this
SUNDAY, MAY 10
ROCK SOLID CHILDREN'S CHURCH
Special Mother's Day Lesson!
VBS 2009: Boomerang Express
Where it all comes back to Jesus!
June 15-19
6:00 to 8:30 p.m.
VBS HELP NEEDED!
Group Leaders, Teachers, Extra Helpers
contact me at pcckidzministry@aol.com
*** PAPER TOWEL & TP ROLLS NEEDED FOR CRAFT PROJECTS***
Please save and turn in at children's sign in table. Thank you!
TEACHERS NEEDED for SUNDAY MORNINGS: SUMMER and FALL ROTATIONS.
As our church has grown, we have been blessed to be able to offer a quality ministry to more children. However, the bottom line is, WE NEED MORE TEACHERS! We need to broaden the number of teachers we have to help us achieve the ministry goals of reaching as many children in Pace with the Gospel. There are more families and children with unique needs. They need a loving Church home to help minister to them. With more teachers and helpers on board, we can help families experience the AUTHENTIC LOVE of Jesus Christ!
In His Love, Cathy
Sunday, May 3, 2009
ROCK SOLID: What Your Child Learned in Church Today, Sunday, May 3
Bible Lesson: The Rise and Fall of Saul, the First King of Israel (1 Samuel 11:1-11, 13:5-16, 14:1-23, 15:1-31)
Memory Verse: "Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the LORD our God." Psalm 20:7 NIV
Main Point: I will live a life of faith in God rather than relying on just my own strength and understanding!
What we learned:
Today, we saw how Saul's reign as King started out humbly as he relied on God to empower him as a leader, but all too soon we see that Saul becomes enamored with himself and begins to rely on his own strength to lead the people. God gives Saul numerous opportunities to repent, but Saul blindly continues to reject God and walk by sight rather than by faith. As a result, God rejects Saul as king, tearing the kingdom from him and giving it to a man after his own heart, David.
Life Application:
Like Saul, we too can become relient upon ourselves instead of God. Our successes can cause us to puff up with pride and cause us to walk in our own strength and understanding. When we turn away from God, giving ourselves the credit for 'our' successes and accomplishments, we are setting ourselves up for a big fall. Just like God ripped the kingdom from Saul, He can and will deal with our disobedience. Therefore, we should live our lives relying on God, obeying Him, and giving Him all of the credit and glory due.
TRAINING UP A CHILD HOMEWORK:
1. Memory Verse: Help your child memorize Psalm 20:7 in the upcoming week. Discuss why it is important to place your ultimate trust in the Lord.
2. Bible Reading: Read through the Bible lesson passages (1 Samuel 11:1-11, 13:5-16, 14:1-23, 15:1-31) throughout this week. You can read a little each night with your child. Discuss with your child how Saul's actions were in direct disobedience to God. Help them understand that as a result, God dealt with Saul by eventually removing him as King of Israel. Help them to know that God deals with those who are disobedient. However, there is forgiveness and mercy if we repent and confess our sins to Him.
3. Suggested Parent/Child Activity: Through out the week take time to point out various things in which we place our trust. Things such as airplanes, medicine, banks, goverment, technology. All of these things can fail us but God never will.
4. Daily Prayer: Dear God, please help us place our trust in you. Help us seek you and your wisdom for the all the decisions we make both klarge and small. Keep us from becoming proud and let us honor you by the way in which we live. Amen
In His Love, Cathy
Memory Verse: "Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the LORD our God." Psalm 20:7 NIV
Main Point: I will live a life of faith in God rather than relying on just my own strength and understanding!
What we learned:
Today, we saw how Saul's reign as King started out humbly as he relied on God to empower him as a leader, but all too soon we see that Saul becomes enamored with himself and begins to rely on his own strength to lead the people. God gives Saul numerous opportunities to repent, but Saul blindly continues to reject God and walk by sight rather than by faith. As a result, God rejects Saul as king, tearing the kingdom from him and giving it to a man after his own heart, David.
Life Application:
Like Saul, we too can become relient upon ourselves instead of God. Our successes can cause us to puff up with pride and cause us to walk in our own strength and understanding. When we turn away from God, giving ourselves the credit for 'our' successes and accomplishments, we are setting ourselves up for a big fall. Just like God ripped the kingdom from Saul, He can and will deal with our disobedience. Therefore, we should live our lives relying on God, obeying Him, and giving Him all of the credit and glory due.
TRAINING UP A CHILD HOMEWORK:
1. Memory Verse: Help your child memorize Psalm 20:7 in the upcoming week. Discuss why it is important to place your ultimate trust in the Lord.
2. Bible Reading: Read through the Bible lesson passages (1 Samuel 11:1-11, 13:5-16, 14:1-23, 15:1-31) throughout this week. You can read a little each night with your child. Discuss with your child how Saul's actions were in direct disobedience to God. Help them understand that as a result, God dealt with Saul by eventually removing him as King of Israel. Help them to know that God deals with those who are disobedient. However, there is forgiveness and mercy if we repent and confess our sins to Him.
3. Suggested Parent/Child Activity: Through out the week take time to point out various things in which we place our trust. Things such as airplanes, medicine, banks, goverment, technology. All of these things can fail us but God never will.
4. Daily Prayer: Dear God, please help us place our trust in you. Help us seek you and your wisdom for the all the decisions we make both klarge and small. Keep us from becoming proud and let us honor you by the way in which we live. Amen
In His Love, Cathy
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