Tonight was a very special night for our family. We all went together to see the new Star Trek movie. As the pre-show advertisements rolled on screen, the five of us settled into our seats, munching on popcorn, sipping our sodas, and anticipating the start of the movie. Every few minutes, one of the kids would ask for the time, following up their question with another, "How much longer before the movie begins?" There we were. All together. As we munched and talked it suddenly dawned on me that this was the first time in a very long time that we had gone out together as a family. I believe the last time we went to the movies together was the premiere of the last Star Wars movie. I don't even know how long ago that was. In fact, as I thought further, tonight was the first outing anywhere as a family since Mathew had gone off to college. Even though he was home for the holidays, we didn't really go out as a family.
So there we were tonight. Together. I was also struck by the fact that these special moments are going to become rarer and rarer over time. There will come a time in which just the five of us, together, will become the exception rather than the rule. We are already experiencing this to a degree now that Mathew is in college. The idea that our little family, the fabulous five, won't always be under the same roof hurts my heart. I love my children and enjoy their company. We are a tight knit family. When even one is not home, the nest seems empty. What will I do when all three are gone?
I guess the best thing is to savor each and every moment we have together as a family. We won't allow the world to rob us of the precious opportunities we share. We must be ready to seize these special moments when they present themselves, but also make time for special moments such as these while we have the opportunity.
Tonight, as the movie started, I sat next to my family, watching their expressions, sharing in their laughter, enjoying their company. All five of us, Trekkies. Though I enjoyed the movie, I derived the most enjoyment from my family. Thank you, God, for I am blessed indeed!
Friends, enjoy your families this weekend. Live long and prosper!
In His Love, Cathy
PS - If you're wondering about that inappropriate scene in the movie, don't worry, Scott and Mathew had that covered - literally. The minute it flashed across the screen they both covered Michael's eyes with their hands. In fact, I think Michael's whole face was covered. I don't even know if the child was able to breath in that few minutes. Kudos to Dad and Mathew!
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