"The Grinch Who Stole Christmas" was one of my FAVORITE Christmas shows growing up! I have so many fond memories of my sister and I, in our Winnie the Pooh pajama's (with footies) sitting in front of our family TV excitedly watching 'The Grinch.' Each Christmas special meant we were one night closer to "The Big One," - Christmas Eve!
As I've grown up and become a Christian, I know the real meaning of Christmas is about Christ and His gift of salvation. As a Christian, it is SO IMPORTANT that I maintain the RIGHT ATTITUDE and SPIRIT not only this Christmas season but EVERY SINGLE DAY. Believers and nonbelievers alike are watching me, noticing if I'm truly living the faith I so profusely proclaim. Family members, friends, church members, students, and strangers can either see CHRIST IN ME or MISSING IN ME by MY WORDS and ACTIONS. I'll be the first to admit that I don't always get it right all of the time!
As we go forth this Christmas Season and kick off the New Year, let's commit to LOVE ONE ANOTHER. This is one of the biggest complaints among nonbelievers about Christians...that we don't act any differently than they do, that we are hypocrites! We can't win over nonbelievers to Christ if we aren't living for Him and loving others the way He commanded us to. So let's get to loving one another!
What does it mean to love one another?
1. Loving one another means to be ENCOURAGING and EDIFYING. To do only that which BUILDS UP - NOT that which TEARS DOWN. It calls us to RESPECT others, especially other believers and those God has called to serve Him. My son Mathew's 2nd grade teacher made all of her students look up the word edify and memorize it's meaning. If she heard her students say something mean to each other, they had to write 'edify' and it's defition from memory a certain number of times and then use it in a sentence appropriate for the situation. In 1 Thessalonians, Paul gives similar advice to the early church.
"Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. Now we ask you, brothers, to respect those who work hard among you, who are over you in the Lord and who admonish you. " 1 Thessalonians 5:11-12
2. Loving others means to PUT THEIR INERESTS ABOVE YOUR OWN. To be ready to help a brother or sister in need even if it cost you!
"Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. " Phillippians 2:3-4
Christ showed us the ultimate example of this when He gave up His own life, dying on the cross, to pay the price for OUR SINS!
3. Loving others means to NOT to CRITICIZE, Not to be MEAN-SPIRITED toward ONE ANOTHER. We are NOT to even THINK ILL or SPEAK ILL of one another! Did you know that? It's right there in the BIBLE!
"Don’t speak evil against each other, dear brothers and sisters. If you criticize and judge each other, then you are criticizing and judging God’s law. But your job is to obey the law, not to judge whether it applies to you. God alone, who gave the law, is the Judge. He alone has the power to save or to destroy. So what right do you have to judge your neighbor?" (James 4:11)
Did you know that when when we criticize and judge a fellow Christian brother or sister we are putting ourselves on GOD's Throne of Judgement! Basically, we kick God to the curb and we take over! Last time I checked, WE AIN'T GOD! We ain't in charge, either! God alone is in charge of the judging department. Trust me, he didn't recruit us for that job - we don't have the MINIMUM credentials for the job! So before we say something critical about the splinter in the eye of others, we need to get that big ole log out of our own eye! We may be forgiven, but we still ain't perfect! The last time I checked, God was still on the throne and Jesus Christ was the only one who could walk on water!
4. Loving others means to HAVE THE RIGHT ATTITUDE towards others - the ATTITUDE of CHRIST JESUS!
"You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had." Phillippians 2:5
Attitude is everything. Having the attitude of Christ permeates our entire being. We can have the attitude of Christ because of the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. People notice if we have a loving attitude or not. It affects EVERYTHING we say and do. People will know if we are acting in genuine love or not. Christ will shine through if our heart attitude is right!
At the end of "The Grinch Who Stole Christmas," it was a tiny little who girl, Cindy Lou Who, who broke through the hard, cold heart of the Grinch. And, as the tale goes, the Grinch's heart grew three sizes that day. Because the Grinch realized that Christmas wasn't about the gifts and the material things. It was about love. The only thing that would have made this story perfect would for it to have told the real meaning of Christmas, the Birth of the Son of God, Jesus Christ!
Use this Christmas Season as an opportunity to share the love of Jesus Christ with others. Make this love REAL by your WORDS and by your ACTIONS. Keep a RIGHT ATTITUDE and SPIRIT of LOVE in all circumstances. Don't let the Grinch steal the REAL SPIRIT of Christmas from your heart! LOVE GOD and share His love by LOVING PEOPLE!
Grace and Peace!
In His Love, Cathy