Don't sin by letting anger control you.
Think about it overnight and remain silent.
Psalm 4:4
Oh, how I need to be reminded of this on a daily basis! Not that I'm an angry person nor do I have anger management issues. But it reminds me that even those few times that I do become angry I'm at risk of sinning...against God, against others, and against myself!
Anger that is out of control can lead us to react impulsively, hurt others, and even hurt ourselves. We may never lay a finger on someone else as a result of our anger, but our words can sear so deep into the core of others. Anger causes us to say hateful, mean, and downright ugly things - things we don't mean when we are not angry. And what's more, when speaking out of anger, our words are designed to hurt others. The problem is, we often regret our angry words and actions later, after we've calmed down. But what we say in a fit of anger can never, ever be taken back. It's like squeezing a tube of toothpaste. Once the toothpaste is out, it can't go back in. However, a little toothpaste never hurt anyone. Angry words do hurt, and they hurt deeply. The hurt can even be carried around by the victim for a very long time, even years.
Don't let anger control you. Ask for God's help the next time you become angry. Count to 10 before you speak...better yet, take a long, brisk walk, and don't speak until you have calmed down. Give yourself time to cool down even if it takes all night! Last but not least..."Don't be hatin'!"
If you find yourself angry and lashing out often, you might need to ask for help in controlling your anger. Please seek professional help. You don't have to live under anger's shadow!
I'm praying for you! Grace and Peace!
In His Love, Cathy
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